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<h1 style="text-align: center;">Simple Ways To Become More Attractive</h1> <p style="text-align: center;"><img src="https://media.istockphoto.com/id/2193658276/es/foto/hermosa-mujer.jpg?s=612x612&amp;w=0&amp;k=20&amp;c=KLyrP6VIRWJKHMoO9xgQvo_DeO1zHaKp7zmd5a4NMPo=" alt="" width="800" /></p> <p><strong>1- Get in shape:</strong> Any man can sweep off any woman off her feet, true, but, it doesn't help you if you're overweight or scrawny. This doesn't mean turn into a meathead muscle machine but get yourself into a routine, the internet is a huge resource to find out information about getting into the perfect shape. Don't do it just for women (or men), do it for yourself. Your body deserves to be treated correctly. Run, jog, swim, lift weights, watch what you eat, stop smoking cigarettes, don't drink as much, don't do drugs as much. A woman loves a man who is <a href="https://blog.loveawake.com/2021/07/05/physical-looks-and-their-effect-on-your-success-to-attract-women/">physically attractive</a>, once again, your body isn't going to get you the girl, your brain and what you say is. But it will surely help. The resources are out there available - use them.</p> <p><strong>2- Get the correct amount of sleep:</strong> Doing so will not only improve the way you look, it will improve your memory and all other brain functions. In turn, making you wittier, funnier, cockier, whatever. Also, it will keep you from getting sick. I can't tell you how many girls I've blown it with cause I was sick and gave it to them. Its such a turn off, both ways.</p> <p><strong>3- Change your hairstyle:</strong> Go for something new, if it doesn't work, it'll grow back. Don't go for the run of the mill buzz-cut or slicked hair. Go to the barber shop and look in a magazine and find something. Trust me, it'll work. Facial hair as well, grow out some sideburns, cut them off, grow a goatee, cut it off, go clean shaved, or try looking scruffy. You'll find something that works for you.</p> <p><strong>4- Get some new clothes:</strong> As much as I don't like buying into the <a href="https://blog.loveawake.com/2019/02/14/most-common-mens-fashion-mistakes/">fashion world</a>, it helps. So get some new outfits, even if it isn't your style, you'd be surprised what a couple new threads will do for your confidence and the ladies love it, even if you don't. Dress as if you're already the person who you want be.</p> <p><strong>5- Educate yourself:</strong> Instead of spending three hours a day sitting in the PUA forums and reading new crappy canned methods. Pick up a book, newspaper, or internet article and educate yourself. Women love smart men, that's a fact. You don't have to be Einstein. I've heard countless guys whining "My life is boring, I don't have anything to talk about". This is in your hands, you'll have plenty to talk about if you just read three books on psychology, history, science, current events, or whatever else you find intriguing. Reading not only furthers your knowledge, it enhances your vocabulary - which again you don't need to be a human dictionary, but eliminating "that sucks" and "cool..." and "nice..." and "kinda..." and other countless boring words from your speech and replacing them with advanced words makes you more attractive. You can count on that. In addition, reading will further your ability to speak properly and aid in your grammar. Nobody likes to be around the guy that says "like" and "uhhh..." and other filler words every 15 seconds when he is speaking. You want be attractive? Intelligence is one quality every single girl will list when asked about <a href="https://blog.loveawake.com/2021/05/31/the-total-package-that-drives-women-wild/">what they look for in a guy</a>. It will also enhance your humor and will allow you to capitalize on more opportunities. Why? Because you're now far more intelligent.</p> <p><strong>6- Mirror effective personalities:</strong> Now, don't be a mirror of the people. But mirror their good qualities and add them to your arsenal. Whether its a T.V. character who has a good cocky/funny attitude or someone you meet who you just thought was an interesting person. Nobody on this Earth is a completely original person, everything we say and do is picked up by others, usually subconsciously. So be conscious of it, and you'll find great success. For example, I mirrored many of the qualities that a character named Dr. Cox on the T.V. Show Scrubs displays.</p> <p><strong>7- Talents:</strong> Everyone has a few, find them.</p> <p><strong>8- Work on your manners:</strong> I have seen dozens upon dozens of random guys and even my friends blow it with a gorgeous girl because they didn't cover their mouth when they sneezed or coughed. Say "Bless you", "Thank you", "You're welcome". Hold doors open for people, let someone walk in front of you instead of being the jerk who pushes through. There are dozens of common courtesies that many people just forget to do. At the end of the day, a girl wants a man she can be proud to be around, and one that will treat her with the respect she deserves. Don't lose your cocky &amp; funny attitude or whatever your game plan is, but be a genuinely respectful person and it will surely pay off. This can be one of the greatest form of value, given that very few people practice it.</p> <p><strong>9- Develop your knowledge and skills in interesting areas of human interest:</strong> While I don't recommend all of them, they are certainly nice to have under the sleeve. They are not needed, but they are just general knowledge. So don't rant: "I would never do that!". You don't have to.</p> <p><strong>Magic Tricks -</strong> I don't know any, but I can shuffle a deck of cards 8 different ways, and when I play games at college, girls are amazed that there are more than 2 ways to shuffle a deck. Instant conversation starter and attention grabber.</p> <p><strong>Tarot Cards/Runes -</strong> Even though I have grown to hate them from doing so many reads, I keep a deck visible in my room at all times. They cost no more than 25 dollars and it comes with a book. It'll take you a few weeks to get the hang of them, but do it anyway. Countless girls have been dazzled by my reads on them. I've even done reads on guys at a party and had a group of girls waiting in line to be next. Cut it off and tell them you'll do it later, they will bug you for your attention and wait for you while you walk away and go interact with someone else. (In love and war, everything is fair)</p> <p><strong>Astrology:</strong> Pick up a couple books on astrology. Learn your sign and the general details on women signs, you won't need to learn any other guy ones obviously. I've met many beautiful women with just asking them when their birthday is, don't ask the sign, know what dates correspond and you'll knock her socks off. A nice trick to have under the sleeve, but again, it is not necessary. And no, do not make this a priority.</p> <p><strong>Psychology:</strong> I go to college, and I honestly couldn't even give you a ballpark figure on how many women are Psychology majors. You don't have to be Seigmand Frued, but if you can hold an intellectual conversation with a women about psychology, she'll love you forever. They don't even have to be Psychology majors. All girls love psychology. It's what they do. They are natural psychologists. Even if you don't use it to converse about, use it to your advantage, you'll be able to read social situations hundred times better with even a basic understanding of psychological theories.</p> <p><strong>Philosophy:</strong> It will open your mind in more ways than you can imagine in turn making you a more intelligent being. You will not only learn Philosophy, but you will live it.</p> <p><strong>Sports:</strong> Some girls love sports. Even if you hate them, know something about them. Thirty minutes of ESPN.com won't kill you. If you don't use it with a sports girl, use it to befriend the five guys that are surrounding her.</p> <p><strong>Politics:</strong> Again, you'd be surprised how many women are Political Science majors. Myself, I love politics, some people hate it. But if you can converse or even school a girl on the current political disaster we call our government, she will find you attractive. (Warning: Some people get very heated while engaged in political debates, never loose your cool because you'll just look like a jackass)</p> <p><strong>Music:</strong> Develop your taste in music to include more than crappy mainstream rappers and pop music. Listen to all types of music, my old roommate knew the words to more songs than I can even begin to name. Everything from Johny Cash to N*Sync, seriously, his current girlfriend was so amazed by his musical variety that I think that was their first deep conversation. That has the word "Value" written all over it.</p> <p><strong>Interesting General Facts:</strong> Learn interesting facts of all types. If you <a href="https://www.loveawake.com/free-online-dating/United-States/state-of-Alaska.html?gender=female">meet a girl from Alaska</a>, "Did you know that the Alaskan coastline makes up more than half of the entire US coastline?" <a href="https://www.loveawake.com/free-online-dating/Brazil/city-of-Rio-de-Janeiro.html?gender=female">I met a woman from Rio de Janeiro</a>, Brazil the other night and told her how much I loved the statue of Christ the Redeemer that sits atop the Corcovado Mountain and how beautiful the view is looking down into the city. She was absolutely stunned that I even knew that it was there, I didn't even have to tell her that I have never actually been there. She was too busy drowning in my words as I continued the conversation. Simple facts like this will separate you from the other one hundred guys she sees and meets that day.</p>